“The reason we suffer with insecurity is because we compare our behind-the-scenes with everyone else’s highlight reel”-Steve Furtick
A comedian tells his audience a joke, they laugh like crazy. He tells the same joke again, only a few laugh. He tells it one more time, no one laughs. If you can’t laugh at the same thing twice, then why do you keep crying about the same thing over and over again? Nobody is prefect. We all have our pros, cons, strengths and insecurities. It’s alright if you sometimes feel gloomy because of not looking or being the way you want to be. You are not alone, we all feel that way sometimes. But what makes it alright is that life is a journey. It has ups and downs, and won’t always be sunshine and rainbows; However, this journey is the process of us hustling to become the best possible version of ourselves. Break that cycle of insecurity. You are you and that is your superpower. Insecurity comes from you. It’s what your mind conspires and how it overcomplicates everything. And more often than not, that thing you’re insecure about is just in your head and no one else notices it. Why fear or worry about what others think of you? Why doubt yourself ? Do you do all that just to feel worthy? Well, let me tell you something, you ARE worthy, you are enough and you are powerful. Honestly, we all get jealous and angry sometimes. It’s normal and okay. But what is not okay is turning these negatives into insecurities since insecurity destroys everything well and beautiful. If someone isn’t giving you the attention, love or care you deserve, that doesn’t mean that something is wrong with you. It simply means that the other person is not worth your time and love. We all deserve someone who will love us for us and treat us the way we deserve to be treated. If you are insecure about something, doesn’t that mean that you know someone else can treat it better? Confidence is the key! But insecurities just show that you’re human BUT as a powerful human, it’s your job to overcome them!
“Until you cross the bridge of your insecurities, you can’t begin to explore your possibilities.”