Not everyone in your life is going to want to stay. Some people are meant to be a lesson that you have to learn, the hard way. Whereas, some are willing to stay and stand by you every step of the way. But, that is all mediocre. That is the way life has always been. And that is okay. Support and criticism are both necessary, for a flower can’t bloom without both sunlight and rain. What is most important, is that you are not willing to walk away from yourself. Because let me tell you something, people always come and go. That is a known inevitable fact. You can always lose someone, if not by their own will, then by force. Death is inevitable and life is short. However, your life still goes on. But if you lose yourself, then that is your biggest loss. Find yourself so you can find others. Fill your undying spirit and show your colors, they are worth it.
I think it’s inevitable that people are on a constant hunt for their happily ever after. And so it really scares me to realize that not everyone gets one. A happily ever after. But then again, you never know what is yet to come. A blessing could always be disguised as a burden and vice versa, how can you really tell? You can barely tell the difference between sugar and salt until you’ve had a taste. Maybe life was meant to be like that; trying things out and figuring your way with a hopeful heart. Things are so tough right now that I’m not going to even try and sugar coat them. But then again, god gives us what he knows we can handle. Just like me, you, many people are going through hardships right now, and as cliche as it’s going to sound, we really are in this together. With a heavy heart, I hope for brighter days and happier times. Please be safe, for you, your family, and everyone else. Sending the warmest love and prayers.
You have been given a beautiful fragile little heart. It is a gift, so don’t ever let anyone make you feel ashamed of it. Sometimes life is unfair and difficult. It keeps hitting us with hardships to see how far we can go and not give up. Yes our heart is little, but it is stronger than you can ever imagine. Other people do not have the same heart as you, and that’s okay. You never know what life has thrown at someone to mold and shape them into the person that they are today. But we have to understand others, feel with others, regardless of the circumstances. This is called empathy. So always be kind, it is a weapon like no other. And if you’re hurting, I hope that your precious little heart heals, but more importantly, never let anything or anyone rob it of the kindness that it has been finessed with.
We often fabricate stories in our minds that are so far off from reality. We create scenarios that we hope to live one day. But the thing is, if we get so caught up in our fairytales, we’d easily get disappointed by reality. So often I’ve been disappointed by someone’s character, then just to realize that who I thought they were was a character that I had created in my head. Just imagine that you can love, hate, care or envy someone just based on a fiction of them that you’ve created in your head. It’s a toxic mind game. So the question is: how to get out of it? I’m not completely sure. But I do know one thing, and that is love. Because I know that love is mightier and more beautiful than anything you could ever imagine. So spread love and positivity, and let your heart soar. Have no limits and just appreciate the people around you. You are not alone.
We are ever changing individuals in an ever changing world. Like little pebbles floating in this great stream called life. As the popular saying goes “go with the flow” Nothing is as beautiful as believing that there’s a plan for you, and leaving it on destiny. However, sometimes, clarity is a must. It is knowing where you stand, what you stand for, and who you stand with. Clarity is a mutual need between any two individuals. I need to know where we stand, what you want, what I want, and if our desires align. Sometimes, people avoid thinking thoroughly and finding clarity of a certain matter just so they don’t have to deal with the difficulty that comes with it. Yes, facing reality is never easy; however, it is necessary. Think about what it is that you want, stop playing games, and face it. You only have one once upon a time, so make the most out of it.
It truly is the little things in life. There is nothing as beautiful as the feeling you get when you feel the stars aligning and things finally going your way. Feeling loved and appreciated is the perfect example of that. We often forget about the little things, like kissing our mom goodnight, telling our best-friend a secret or simply having a home to go back to at the end of the day. These may be little things, but they themselves are huge. We are all destined for great things.
I feel beyond happy and grateful, and I hope you feel that way too. If not now then soon. Just remember that life gives you a hundred reasons everyday to stop, yet you still go on. And for that, you are powerful.
I also wanted to mention that my book “The Simply Powerful” will be out on March 7th💜 If you get to read it, I hope you enjoy reading it as much as I enjoyed writing it💜
Ps: you are loved, and if you haven’t heard it yet, then I love you.
It’s heartbreaking when things don’t go the way you wanted them too. I know the pain, trust me, I’ve felt it. But I also know that it gets better. No matter how hopeless you feel, it will get better. When something goes wrong, there’s probably a right reason it did. Just know that there’s always a plan for you. Just because you might not see it right now, doesn’t mean it’s not there. We don’t always see the stars in the day, but we still know they’re there right? Try and figure out what it is that you want. Make sure to look in-front of you, because often what we want is right in-front of our eyes and we don’t even notice. Don’t make the wrong decision and then go running back. Life is short, you never know when is someone’s last day or even minute. Therefore, be who you are. Be true to yourself always, and to what you want. Take the risk and the chances because if not now then when?
I don’t know how to feel. Sometimes the world is too much to handle. We are all different spirits roaming around the same path trying to find where it is we belong. But it’s okay to feel tired; tired of searching, of walking or even running. If you feel lost, I honestly don’t know what to tell you. The only thing I think I can say is that you’re not alone. You are never alone. What you feel, we might all feel if not already felt. But life goes on with or without you. I know that it’s a tough pill to swallow and even a hard concept to understand, but it is what it is. Like many things in life, we often can’t change reality. However, we can change our mindset, attitude or whatever you want to call it. To whoever feels this way, I hope you find your way. I hope we all do. And don’t forget to be kind, the world needs it.
It’s hard not knowing what it is that you want, or what it is that you feel; however it does remind us that we are fragile and human. It’s scary to want something at this moment, and not want it in the next. Our mind often plays the dirtiest games. Our heart craves one thing, while our mind visions the opposite. We are left with the mere confusion of what to do. Give it time they say, all heals with time they say, but does it actually?
Someone that makes you feel a special kind of way is someone that is in your life for a reason. Either to teach you a lesson, or to grow with you through the ups and downs. We are different people with different hearts and minds. So we feel and think differently. You can forgive what someone else can’t, and you can hold a grudge that another person can’t. And it’s okay to make mistakes, to not know how you feel, to miss someone, and to feel weak. We are human, and that is just human nature.
But be honest with yourself and others, tell people you miss, need, love them or whatever you do , if you need to.